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May 5, 2019

I know, I know... I’ve been gone, yet again; this time for THREE WHOLE MONTHS! But let’s just pick back up where we left off and act like it never happened, because frankly I'm tired of giving you all excuses for my frequent disappearances...lol. Anyway, here's a [very...

February 3, 2019

Contrary to popular belief, we often seek validation for the things we do:

-Am I with the right person?

-Am I employed with the right company; or better yet should I stay in this career?

-Should I have saved this money instead of buying a Louis bag?well that’s a bad exam...

January 13, 2019

*cue Rick Ross..

Well hello there! Happy New Year greetings are in order…so HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

A couple of years ago when I started this blog, I wrote a post about my Anti-New Year’s Resolution. Before that post, I was the type of girl who made resolutions every year. Unfo...

September 25, 2018

Why hello there! How are you?!

First of all, welcome to all my new subscribers...its amazing how many people actually subscribe to this blog with me slacking and all (I REALLY NEED TO DO BETTER!). I continue to make promises on when I'll write blog posts, but frankly so...

December 22, 2017

It hit me like a ton of bricks today..It's almost 2018..and I am still doing the same crap I "claimed" I wouldn't do anymore when we were approaching 2017. I don't know exactly how I arrived at this epiphany, but today I realized again that I have wasted majority of my...

September 10, 2017

I know, I know....I chose the most cliche title ever! How many times in the last five years have you heard this phrase thrown around in a room full of women?! Nevertheless, no matter your race, age, or place of origin, the expression remains the same: 

"Empowered women,...

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